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Im in a relationship with a great guy who has no self worth feels like he doesnt deserve to be in a happy relationship. keeps putting barriers up.im unsure how to handle this what do i do ? any help appreciatedhes never had a relationship last longer than a few months we have been together for ten my shortest one was 5 yrs? i know hes worth all the effort i have to give him and im not going to give him up without a fight i know hes the best thing thats ever happened to me

If you think he is a great guy stick with it andy d. he is obviously terrified of being hurt so try to reassure him. sometimes just having somebody close to listen & cuddle is priceless. if you always treat each other with love & respect he will gradually begin to trust the relationship. just make sure you remain his partner & not become his counsellor, leave that to somebody professional. let him see this question you have asked on here because it will show him you are looking for ways to stay in the relationship & want to make it work. remember if he is worried the relationship is not something he deserves & he fights against it, it tells me he already feels a lot for you & is also bothered about whether it will last or not. maybe you should concentrate on that fact & go for it. good luck, i hope you sort things out. some people are worth fighting for !! x