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I need a bit of help. i am not nice with women or the games some women like to play. i meet a woman not so long ago, & i kind of backed off as i said you were going fast for me. after that we saw less & less of each, we went from sending texts & emails of a daily basis to maybe sending one once in a while, normally her sending 1st. then last week, i received an email off her, i replied making a bit of small chat, to which she said its always great to hear from me. later that day, i received a text from her saying shes going to be here, come up now. as i had other plans i had to tell her i was busy & that i could not make it. etime i tried to talk serious to her about me & her, shes now the one who backs off then only to send me a message or text. i know she likes me, & maybe shes paying me back for walking a mile in the 1st place but how do how get her to admit her feelings as i am scared she never will & end up with somebody. help!

Ask her to tell you how it is. lay all your cards on the table and tell he how you feel and ask her the same. if she continues to give you mixed signals - then find someone else. good luck and merry christmas to you :)