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I only get to see my boyfriend about once a week, and even then its late becos he works 2 jobs and he lives about 50miles from me, when we do get to see, its usually very late. he is always so tired and all we can do is eat some toast, chat a little, cuddle and go back to sleep, he leaves so early in the morning, for the long drive back, and i am usually half asleep and sometimes dont even know when he is gone. we have never gone to the movies together, or gone shopping or eat out or on walks or those things couples do. its hard to do that when we r together onlt fron 1am to 5.30am. its a peculair relationship, but i am determined to make it work and for us to ebjoy being together as well, what do i do

First off i guess you both realize the distance.and it doesnt have to be about sex.but at least you can talk and have a cuddle.if this has been going on for months and you two actually believe that you love each other, then i think one of you as to make a move. i dont see you getn married and living like this do you,so one of you will have to move. but does each of you really love one another to make such a move. the one that has less of the career should move.why not talk with him about the whole thing. maybe he doesnt even want to be with you that long etc. i guess youll find out more once you have a serious talk with him.