Are we to blame for our kids growing up to fast?

My daughter is 9 and a half going on 16!!! ive always tried to let her make desicions about her life(nothing serious though), but when i think of what i was like at her age i was still playing with my sindy doll!! these days our children have e thing, laptops, wii`s, nintendo ds, didgital camera`s, ipods, phones, is it all our fault? are we making up for what we never had as children ? or are children older and wiser these days? answer`s appreciated guys x
Answer
Yes